I am not sure what to do 
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So my other half has a fantasy of wrestling and toned men. This is one of the reasons why I am on here as my inner self tells me that he won’t find me sexual attractive.
We have been together for 10 year, and our sex life has been dryer than the desert.
We are thinking about rekindling our passion but I need advice, I am slowing losing weight so do I incorporate his fantasy into the bedrooom?
May as well give it a go, plus getting more toned will be better for your health overall and you’ll feel much better about yourself
Yeah I understand where you are coming from, I would love to be more toned but I find gyms very overwhelming. Any tips for a new gym starter. I need to loose a bit of weight before toning up. I want to be able to please them so willing to do whatever it takes I guess.
Well it’s 90% diet so get that sorted first, id strongly recommend finding a personal trainer in a gym or even going with your partner so you can work towards this goal together
Can I recommend a great book on relationships by Esther Perel called Mating in Captivity. Fantasy is so important for many people in their erotic lives. You need to figure out if his fantasies have a resonance with you also …