Hi
Iāve noticed that I only get erections when Iām asleep, and Iām trying to understand what this means. Since we had a child, our sex life has declined significantly. Iāve tried Viagra, but it gives me terrible headaches. The strange thing is, during sleep, I have very strong erections, but of course, my partner is asleep then. I believe this could be related to my depression and anxiety. What can help me in this situation? Iāve even been thinking about the possibility of a penile implant.
This is exactly what I experience. See that this is a good sign since it proves thereās nothing wrong with you physically. In that sense you need no physical interventions. I too have this but on occasion when Iām then awake and thinking about stuff - I canāt stay hard. Iāve also tried various ED medications - they can help but you need to try a few. Cialis I found donāt give me the headaches and itās also a slower burn so you arenāt in a mad rush to try sex before it wears off. Iāve also found, however, if my mind just isnāt into sex then the drug wont work - it still needs you to feel aroused. The take away from what youāve said is to see the positive as Iāve tried to do - thereās no physical issue - this might help you to stay focused on the emotional side of things and working on that.
Hi and thanks for you reply. Can I ask if you discussed this with your partner ? Iām in two minds as Iām a bit embarrassed.