New hear, any advice would be appreciated
Married for 5 years (have a 4 year old)
It has been a few years we have no had sex.
After the child the sex life one could say is non existent.
Sometimes when we try i am too much in my head and spectatoring.
I’ve looked at porn before and some massge therapist, no problem.
Feels like the attraction has lost.
Now i get so worried that i dont even attempt to make the move, fearing i will dissapoint her
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That’s tough. My wife and I are trying to have a baby and I can’t seem to get it up whenever we are at peak fertility.
Keep it up! Gotta be open with your wife.
Sounds like there may be some deeper relationship challenges here but you’ve got to be open with your wife.
I’m in a similar boat, I cum very quickly because fight or flight gets activated whenever my wife and I have sex, as I am so nervous to disappoint her again by cumming too fast… I need to get out of my head, but we also have a lot going on in our lives right now, which results in her rarely agreeing to have sex, which adds to the nervousness. Good luck!
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same situation for me, worst is trying for 3 year. It was so stressful and hard to do every day and now with ED problem getting worse. I wish you good luck