Erection and Precum but can’t have sex

Im curious if anyone has had this issue and has advice for me. I recently got into a relationship and it’s been a slow burn which I really enjoy and I respect my partner for not jumping into things fast. I have an issue where I get hard while cuddling or her touching me affectionately and my underwear is completely soaked with precum. But when we get to the actual dead I can’t get up, it just goes limp! I’m so lost and confused and am wondering if anyone has had any success stories surrounding this issue!

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I’m exactly the same apart from I can only get 60-70% of an erection. Loads of pre cum when cuddling, but can’t do the deed either.. F**king frustrating. Never had a problem until this relationship.. Go figure. Hope you get it sorted dude.. :+1:t2:

Same exact boat here. I’m in a medium distance relationship and get to see him every other week. He’s entirely soft until we’re about to fuck then he’s rock hard, and I’m the exact opposite.

Just started on here (day two now) and want to see what progress I can make in just the two weeks before I see him again!