Divorced and it’s hard to get hard

🍆 Erection issues
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This is so frustrating.

I left my marriage of 13 years about 12 months ago. Took some time to rebuild life and am now starting to date.

All of a sudden it’s hard to get and keep an erection. This is so frustrating. I can get an erection by myself when masterbating, but it’s sporadic around new partners.

Now I’m so in my head about whether or not it will work. It’s so embarrassing and frustrating.

What have y’all done to help yourselves through things like this?

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I am living the same thing. Started taking Cialis on mu first dates, sometimes it worked, sometimes not. Now I’m dating and told my girl that I will stop with the medication. She understands and supoorts me, but it’s being really hard and frustrating.

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Thanks for sharing.

Few questions. Did you decide to take the daily cialis or just before sex? Did you find that one worked over the other? Were there any trends when it did work?

Thank you so much for sharing.

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I took it before sex, a few hours earlier, with an empty stomach. It made me feel good and meet some girls, but I knew the problem was still there. So instead of trying to deal with this in a year, where the problem will be bigger, I decided to do it now

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I do take the daily Cialis when I’m spending time with my long distance girlfriend (about every other month, on average), it works, but I also feel that this app has helped a lot with the psychological issues. I had taken Cialis in the past and it didn’t really work, but now the combination really has improved my sex life. I hope to ditch the pills eventually, but don’t feel ready yet.

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I feel you. I used to have on and off ED issues in my long term relationship. Sometimes I got hard, sometimes I didn’t. Sometimes I needed some handling and sometimes I was just ready to go. I have a new partner now and still going through a separation. It’s tough. Often I can’t get hard on my own without touch or some masturbation. My partner is so gorgeous and I really love her. She is definitely not the problem. The thing is, she doesn’t see there is a problem. She enjoys being with me, I kiss her a lot, explore her body with touch and my lips and often make her cum with oral. When I do get hard the special attention to her pays off and it’s great. One night I couldn’t get hard and she was like ‘I’m fine, seriously. I’m more than ok’.