Different times not compatible

Anytime she is horny, I cannot seem to get it up. I am usually at the lowest of my libido, have just ate, or cannot seem to get turned on. I’ve just stopped trying in some ways because just now I should have had most things going for me and I just could not get or maintain an erection even before any possibility of penetration. I have practiced sensanate even the day before but I cannot make it work around her. She is beautiful and I know the problem lies with me. Any suggestions as she has been used to me getting hard quickly for our more than 17 years together and now it is slow if at all.

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