I have been in a relationship 8 years ago and after that date a few small term relationships. Had amazing sex with them all my life. Recently I have been noticing that I don’t get any morning wood.
Whenever I mastrubate, as long as I am touching my penis, it stays hard. The moment I let it go, it looses erecrion in nano seconds.
I still mastrubate like 4 times a day, sometimes with the soft penis itself.
Recently I started dating a girl and she is hot as hell. Only thing, I don’t get hard. She tried to stimulate me and my dick was soggy. It was very embarrassing and I think I am heart broken. I feel like a looser and she is having mixed thoughts as it was our first time and she thinks it’s an issue I need to fix.
Do you actually 4x a day? If so, that maybe too much and body needs to recover…see what happens if you cut back.
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I have been doing it 4 or more since I was 14.
Ok I can try cutting back 
what’s normal amount a day/week ?
4 times a week lol
I thought I was heavy with the wanking . That’s to much pal . Got to 2-3 a week so your ready to go
4x might be a little too much. Try cutting it down slowly like recommended in the program. If you think it is interfering with your life priorities and such, maybe look into therapy as mentioned.
Hey don’t think there is really a guide or recommended amount - but it feels like your body is telling the story here.
Sounds like you have a bit of a habit - but can you feel why you do it? What occurs to you to start to masturbate - bordom, stress, just horny??? Perhaps if you sense whatever it is, go for a walk or gym instead or just do something different and reduce the amount you jerk off a bit, and then try to reduce some more . I think your response to your partner may then start to improve.
Perhaps aim for 1x a day ( may take a while to get there) and see how you go - but as others have said, once every 2 to 3 days is pretty common and broadly consistent with Mojo phases.
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Do you guys think the sex drive has also reduced because of the mastrubation so often ?
Probably. Every time you have an orgasm you flood your brain with dopamine which is the hormone of motivation. If you masturbate 4 times a day you’re getting a lot of dopamine which would probably drop your baseline levels below where they should be.
I’d try not ejaculating for 5 days (you can masturbate just don’t have an orgasm). See if you notice improvements.
I find it easier to maintain an erection if I haven’t had an orgasm in a few days. But the flip side of that technique is that I find I’m more likely to cum too quickly.
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That’s very interesting, I think I’ll try this out for sure. This could be the entire issue in my end I guess