Damn, my inner critic was fuckin’ me up for a while; always getting soft, not able to cum, making excuses in my head, finding reasons to blame my wife instead of my own self-sabotage. Shit, I even felt like my libido was gone, wasn’t really horny nor fantasized.
Mojo def helped, able to write things out to my coach without judgement and challenged me to openly express what was going on with my wife.
After delaying a couple weeks and finally finding the balls to speak to her about Mojo and why I started it, she understood. She understood the inner critic piece (as we all have one, including her), met me where I was at, and supported me. The moment I was able to open up to her about what I was facing, a weight came off my shoulders. I’m not saying we immediately fucked right there but instead, we just embraced, cuddled and got back to affection and physical touch. It was a nice spark to the connection.
I also started doing some
Kegel stretches/exercises and exploring the Erotic Stories (audio ASMR) on here, and some of them are fuckin hot. Great kinks and fantasies played out, with amazing ASMR of girls sucking cock. Listening to these peppered throughout the day started to get me in the mood, boosting my libido.
Then one day, I listened to few, did a few warm up kegels to get the juices flowing down there, and the. went straight to her and said, I want you. We went to the bedroom where she proceeded to suck my cock, and got me rock hard. We ended up fucking and we came at the same time. It was magical, and she smiled saying, looks like your app is working. But most importantly, throughout all of this, my inner critic didn’t show up once, and I found my confidence again.
Now I know how to get turned on, and need to continue to work on lasting longer, but at least I have growth (pun intended). Keep it up fellas!