Hey everyone, I seem to lose my erection during sex the most when I’m on my back and my partner in top; does anyone else get this? I’ve thought maybe it’s just gravity, but don’t know if that even makes sense?
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Makes sense. For me it is just that it does not stimulate me the right way. If she lays over me than I can work if she sits up straight like horse riding then I loose it after a while though they seem to love it
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thx for ur input!
Interestingly I’ve always found that with my partner on top it’s easier to maintain an erection rather than say doggy or another position, I think the thought of moving around and changing positions means I lose my erection and my inner critic comes out
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I tend to have the same issues. It’s like all the blood rushes away from my penis and I get flaccid
It can be helpful, after using Mojo for a while, to then begin to practice masturbating in different positions, you can then build up confidence that whatever position you are in you can get your hardness back by getting back into your body and out of your head. Remember, take your time, use lots of lube and relax your body : )
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thx amanda : )
Same thing happens for me.
I did always love that position beacose my wife love it the most ,
But first time did go down in that position. But i think only reason for that is anxiety
Yes i agree had this recently. I think it has to do with the feeling of not being in charge. Doggy works best for me though if i am completely out of my head this is fine too
The last few years it’s been near impossible for me to have sex in any position other than upright. Doggy is the only one with a decent chance of me keeping it up, especially with a condom.
I went to the doctor, but apparently there is no medical reason why erections would be weaker when horizontal. I got the vibe that he thought it was a very strange complaint.
I’ve seen the same in my case. Somehow I’ve had most success when I feel my feet firmly planted on the ground itself, like standing doggy or missionary at the corner of the bed. I still want to try cowgirl more, and maybe experiment if there’s a better result on a couch (or chair even) where my feet are on the floor and I can leverage better to do some thrusting myself.