Does anyone have positional issues. For example I struggle with erections lying on my back or when I change positions I tend to panic and loose my erection
I’m very much the same way! For me, I have a very hard time getting an erection if I’m on my knees. I also lose erection very quickly when changing positions. I try to communicate with my partner ahead of time which positions I prefer (and which I have a hard time with).
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Yeah I can pretty much only do high pressure positions (like missionary with legs on shoulders) otherwise I start losing it. I think it’s death grip issues so trying the directed masturbation exercises to see if that helps
yup very much so; i stick with doggy only at first until im real comfy with someone
I wish I can have sex standing up again, but it’s really hard for me to keep my erection in that position
I’ve never been comfortable standing up. Possibly from years of masturbating on my back.
Yup I struggle when my lady is on top. We’re working on building up to that, because I know she really wants it. Just playing with rhythm and seeing what feels good for both of us without expectation of penetration
Yeah I think that’s what it is…. Because I know she wants it and enjoys being on top so much I put pressure on myself and just can’t do it.
It never used to be a problem. I mean this is 11 years into marriage now. But we are working up to it again