Anybody else conscious of their body during sex?

I’m not super chubby but I’ve got a dad bod kind of belly, I go gym and I’m trying to work it all off, but no one has ever said anything about my weight but I figure they’re just being nice

So while undressing I do get conscious of my body and the way it looks?

Yep, totally normal.
You’re going to the gym you say? Congratulate yourself, you’re working on being a better, healthier, sexier you. It’s gonna take time but it will come with consistency. Do your best to be proud of what you’re working while still being humble enough to have a laugh at yourself. You got this

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I don’t think it’s a problem for females, I get comments for having little fat.

Up to the point where I trielt believe that the average girl likes to see some belly, though I keep working out and enjoy watching my six pack in the mirror

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Well that’s the thing, my inner critic keeps reminding me how far I’ve got to go and that I don’t feel like dating until I’m looking much slimmer or have my abs showing

yeah I hear it, big congrats on you working on yourself, keep it up, that is true women do like their men with a bit of fat but it’s just the self confidence I guess