Im 21 years old. I have been having erection issues AFTER my first girlfriend when i was 15. I lost my virginity at 15. Ive been suffering from this for 6 years. When we broke up I went through the worst mental state I ever was. I was a porn addict since I was 12-13 years old beating my meat to porn 2-3 times a day for years. Ever since after, Ive had Erection issues and wasnt able to get hard or struggled with it during MULTIPLE occasions. Its Embarrassing and Humiliating. Fast forward to when I was 17, I started dating a girl for 4 years. When I was with her the first couple months I had issues and told her, she told me to relax and she wanted me to forget ab it and she would focus on pleasing me and getting confident. I eventually did and had no issues for all those years. We broke up for completely different reasons and Im back on the issues. I rarely have sexual desires as well which worries me, maybe because Im used to beating my meat every 2 days or so? Sometimes I feel like I dont ejaculate as much as I see guys on porn videos do it. Ive met another girl snd shes brought up sex and she looks forward to it soon. I really like her and this would be the First Impression I give her and im terrified to turn her off if it doesnt go right. Ive used BlueChew before and it HAS helped in most occasions and sometimes it doesnt with other girls. Im not sure if my problem is physical or psychological or both? Everytime I masturbate it takes me effort to get my own self hard when im not watching porn. Ive quit porn for about a month now and the only thing Ive noticed is that Im getting REALLY erotic dreams and am super hard with no issues ln those dreams and wake up hard. But, 95% of every morning I dont wake up with morning wood. I havent been able to not think about my ED problem for more than an hour since I was 15. I feel like a failure, humiliated, and less of a man at the ripe age of 21. Its caused me depression and social anxiety. Ive only been off porn for 1 month strictly but dont know how long it would take to get better. I have 1 shot to impress this new girl and I ordered the strongest bluechew pill just for that 1 occasion, the other times I use blue chew I try to keep it at the least strongest pills.
Hey mate, I’ve also had the same issues with ED all my adult life but they go away way I’m in a relationship. I think someone new makes me nervous. I have been focusing on enjoying it and slowly I am finding it less of an issue. Also you definitely don’t have just one shot to impress her. In my experience girls don’t even rate penetration as their favourite part. Another thing I’ve done which has helped is to tell her about it up front. It’s terrifying but once you’ve done that, the embarrassment is out there and you can enjoy whatever type of sex you have together (using hands/mouths). Every girl I’ve told has gone on to do something sexual with me after even if I don’t get hard. I haven’t figured it out completely yet but those are the things that have helped me.