Am I into both women and men if I've only been with a woman but think about men a lot

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What do u think it is if I only been with women but think about guy on guy sex all the time I watch gay porn to masturbate I’m so confused

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I think it could be rather nuanced - if you have the space within your relationship to experimenting with a man it might give you more experiential information. Fantasies and interests in porn don’t always translate 1:1 with actual experiences/real life pursuits. I would lean into the curiosity, it could be a journey of discovery and your destination is hard to define before exploring.

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Sexual attraction is a wide spectrum with a lot of variety, and we can land on any (or multiple) parts of that continuum without necessarily having to define or categorize our desires. Maybe you are into both men and women, and it’s great that you’re acknowledging and exploring it! Maybe give it a try in person, 1:1, as was already suggested. Wishing you the best!

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I’m going to suggest that you might be pansexual. If I had to identify, that’s where I’d sit. I can appreciate a good looking guy, am not turned on by gay sex, but not repulsed either. My partner and I switch and she uses a strap on and takes the dominant role, so try not to worry. I would have no problem with a with my partner and another man, but only for her pleasure; I have no interest in being penetrated or penetrating a man. If you do end up having any sex with guys and you would again, I’d say that you are bisexual which again is no big deal.