Does anyone else try to make sure they don’t jerk off the night before sex? I have a theory that I’m not as aroused during sex if I’ve cum in the last 24 hours, so I try to avoid jerking off when I know sex will happen.
However, if I abstain for too long - like more than 3 days - the lack of masturbation makes me irritable and feeling stressed.
Going 2-3 days seems to be the sweet spot for me.
What are other guy’s experiences?
Last time I had sex I had literally jerked off in the bathroom like 15 minutes before because I didn’t think she wanted to have sex
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Yeah, I try to avoid masturbating if I think we’re going to have sex within a day or two. The sex drive definitely diminishes if I have an orgasm within 24 hours before intercourse. Unfortunately my significant other doesn’t like porn or I could get in the mood with some visual stimulation. Men are wired differently and porn really seems to help me get turned on no matter when I last ejaculated. I guess it’s hard to be as nasty as porn with a woman who thinks it’s disgusting. Thoughts?
2-3 days is probably about right, however it can be difficult predicting when you’re next going to have sex. Me and wife have often had sex spontaneously rather than pre-planned (and pre planning can even be less than half an hour before we do have sex).