I’m really shocked how quickly this has worked. Two things have stood out to me, box breathing and being more at one with the sensations.
I hooked up with someone last night who wanted to give me head, tbh I was pretty nervous about it - but did some box breathing before. I was able to get hard enough for him to start sucking, and then did some box breathing and really trying to be present and enjoy the sensations and not spectate. Honestly got the strongest erection I’ve had in months. Then today, I got offered head and thought I’d challenge myself and go do it again… I was nervous again thinking last night was a flook. Focused on breathing again, tried to focus on how successful my erection was last night and really speak positively to myself. Got in, to his place, immediately got hard as we were kissing, lay back and enjoyed some amazing head… again really focusing on just enjoying the sensations in the present moment. Again another strong erection and really positive sexual experience. The guy even messaged after to say how much he enjoyed my dick.
I’m really excited for the rest of my Mojo journey, and get more and more in touch with my sexual self.