Gaming
Complete comfort with my partner during sex, that nothing is off limits because we trust each other completely
It is fire. Passion. Sweat. It is satisfying for us both. It is playful too. Sporadic and versatile.
It is a deep connection. But also lust. You build up to it so you cant hold on any longer. The adrenaline, passion heat coupled with the slow sensual touch
I want to be comfortable taking the initiative to start sex rather waiting to see when for them to start all the time
I want to show love and also not be able to keep my hands off a partner because they attract me so much.
Intimacy and bonding that doesn’t feel like there are expectations attached
I want to hunt and connect.
Partners celebrating love for each other, connection
Intimacy with my partner, being naked and together. Less nobly, maybe us both being sluts catering to eachother’s pleasure.
Being free to say anything we desire. Both sides show what they like and are free to explore it. I want to feel comfortable not needing to perform a role. I want to just be in the moment and feel pleasure from my partner. I want to feel confident that my partner enjoys sex with me. I want to make love, not fuck. I want connection and emotional sex over just being someone’s dick. I want to feel more comfortable being in a new situation.
Being playful, feeling like we are both the hottest people on earth, sharing a deep connection, liberating the darker parts of our psyche together where no one else can see them
Being able to be silly, or say things in the heat of the moment that otherwise would be ridiculous.
Being completely open during sex and satisfying each other’s desires without judgment.
Feeling worthy of receiving pleasure rather than obsessing over giving it
I want to feel connected and triumphant after intercourse, I want to feel dominating and intoxicating.
I wish I could release pressure for trying to make a girl finish and know she’s enjoying it regardless of if she finishes, or I finish quicker or whatever
That sex can be a range of experiences and activities, erotic massage, kissing, hugging, laughing. At its core it’s a safe place where we can be exposed, vulnerable and comfortable, and genuinely being present and appreciating and accepting of each other and the experience
Connection and enjoyment of both parties
Not just aiming to cum. It feels like wanting to start something just to finish it, but I’ve got a constant worry that if we don’t cum we’ve wasted our time