Something to be treasured and cherished and looked forward to. Not just ‘going through the motions’. Looking forward to it - whatever “it” turns out to be.
I want to feel as close a bond with my wife as I can. I want her to want me. I want her to initiate things and not just lie and wait on me.
Bonding and feeling cluster to them. A way to know better each other and also the final step of connection
Something easier and less frustrating that what it can feel like now
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Intimacy. Lying on bed naked not in a hurry to get dressed
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Should be fun & light
Wanting to be close to someone and feeling that they want you in return. Also, it’s a collaboration. I’ve always hated the trope that guys need to take charge, I want to be on equal terms when I’m intimate with someone
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Getting close and connect with someone you like and respect
Being able to be open and vulnerable and still feeling safe. I end up viewing sex as a task to complete, or a test to ace, when I want it to be connection instead
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Pure physical, mental, heart mind body and soul , trust and vuneralbitly with the other.
Sharing an erotic experience in any form
Sharing an erotic experience and connecting physically and mentally with someone intimately
Being able to be vulnerable together and not judge. It should result in happiness and satisfaction
Being able to be close to someone who wants you as much as you want them. Being vulnerable and to not judge.
Being so comfortable with my body that nothing matters. Lying naked on a bed with a soft dick knowing it will be hard after me, and someone I am very comfortable with, have some fun. Trying new kinky things and being open to talk about our fantasies.
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Centered on pleasure and fun
Feel seen and the object of desire, not a means to the other persons orgasm
Connection between you and your partner, giving each other pleasure and showing each other your gratitude towards each other
Sex is a way to show affection for someone whose company I enjoy and a way to feel more connected
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Naked cuddling and feeling completely accepted as one is
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