Affirming
My inner critic/coach are voices in a conversation I can hear about myself. My inner critic stresses that if you can’t get hard this time, she’ll have had enough and leave you. My inner coach speaks of the evidence that shows otherwise. How committed I know she is through conversations or her actions.
The inner critic was a strong feeling if dread that came over the body saying this will fail. The inner coach was a strong voice that said it won’t, come into the moment and trust the body and the inner critic didn’t trust the body. But the coach insisted to do so, I need to the coach the be stronger
My inner critic is snydly whiplash saying you will not keep it up. My inner coach is Capti America confident telling the inner ritic he is full of bull
My inner coach reminded me of all of the positive experiences I’ve had. And he reminded me that I’m on the right track to experiencing those again soon.
My inner critic said “this is not going to work” and my inner coach said “Thankyou for that, Andrew you’re all good” to which the inner critic insisted “it won’t work” and my inner coach said “I appreciate that’s your opinion, Andrew you’re all good”
The inner critic is golum like character and my inner coach is my best self. Inner critic says things like you’ll finish fast and disappoint her while my inner coach counters with evidence that you have pleased her
My coach reminded me of when things went well. He showed me that my nervousness was actually usually excitement and that I had to label my feelings correctly.
Inner Critic: This is going to happen again, this is embarrassing. You are not the person you want to be
Inner Coach: It’s ok, you have been here before. Do not judge yourself. Move forward, it’s ok, we have all gone through this before, and you are dealing with it 
The critic tells me that I am unlovable, broken, and doomed to fail. It is a Hyper rational, pessimistic, hopeless voice that tells me my time would be better spent downing a bottle of Jameson and forgetting about the world instead of engaging in it.
The inner coach says fuck you he’s trying his best. And he’s going to keep trying his best ni matter what. It’s simple, confident, and patient. It’s the voice of someone who believes on you without placating you.
like a sports coach, with stern voice
I’m not very likeable. But my coach rebuked with people always say I’m easy to talk to or open up to
I noticed a reflection of myself in my car window this afternoon while wearing my cool aviator sunglasses. I also just got a hair cut so I’m feeling fresh. When I saw my reflection, I thought I looked pretty good! That cool version of me is gonna be my inner coach. Me. But a cool looking version of me. He’s gonna pump me up when I’m in my head.
He’s a mix of a more confident version of myself and my older brother
Encouraging, helpful) supportive
You’ve done this before. You know how to let things go. You know the pleasures you can get from a single touch. You don’t need to focus on one thing.
My inner coach is there to remind me of all the successful times and tells me not to dwell on the few times things didn’t work…
Firm and kind, logical and understanding, realistic and open minded
The inner critic is less of a voice, and more of a collection of feelings both due to past experiences and general self doubt. When I imagine myself having sex with any girl, my inner critic paints a scenario in my head, showing me the girl eager to have sex and excited, meanwhile I’m standing or sitting their nervous, just awaiting the dreadful part where I disappoint her because I couldnt stay hard for sex, it puts the scenes in my head of the girl sitting there disappointed, telling me with low energy and an obvious upset look on her face that its ok i didnt get hard, the room and vibe fills with awkwardness and It’s pretty much just ticking down to the point where I leave with no dignity and hate myself on the ride home.
My inner coach is more my own voice rather than images, scenes and feelings, It’s there telling me that my dick obviously works because in any other scenario, I have zero issues staying hard, it’s telling me the fact that my dick not only works but i know how to use it when it does work, and that i could rock the girls world with it, it’s telling me that I shouldnt try to avoid the negative thoughts, i should simply allow them to flow through, and instead of letting them build and bottle up, i should acknowledge and embrace my negative thoughts and simply keep moving forward despite them, it’s telling me not to worry, not to fall for the cycle of not getting it up because im worried about not getting it up, it’s telling me everything is ok, im not there to prove anything, im not there for a test of my manhood, im there to enjoy sex, in all shapes and forms, to enjoy the moment and not be in my head, its telling me that no matter what the inner critic says, i am 100% perfectly fine and nothing is wrong, and that there is no need for anxiety to overcome you, simply let it flow through you and be concsiously aware of the negative thoughts rather than trying to drown them
My inner critic was a dark obscure version of myself, almost like a villain from a superhero film. It simply told me I would fail. And fail again.
My inner coach was also me, but a clear version of myself standing in the light. He said “are you really going to trust a character the looks like that”