Critic is my old self… when I was always nervous, bullied, alone. Be careful, stay out of any situation that could go wrong. Better to avoid sex than fail… Coach is the powerful confident version of myself. Be confident, take chances, you can do anything you put your mind too!
My inner critic is reminding me of all the times I’ve failed to perform, My inner coach tells the critic to “shut the fuck up you negative asshole” in a way that reminds me of real life former coaches. The coach reminds me that I am healthy and young and that I’ve been able to have proper sex before and there’s nothing holding me back.
He encourages me and tells me that everything is alright. He reassures me that I will do fine I just have to try it. He relaxes me.
My inner critic said I’m on the last straw now, if this happens again this weekend, it’s over and I’ll go back to being single and probably be so destroyed mentally that dating will be impossible. The inner coach said if this happens again this weekend, which it may or may not since the majority of the time it doesn’t, then you don’t really know how she will react and that no matter what happens, I can deal with it and continue to try to improve and that I should give myself credit for trying and taking the risk and facing the fear in the first place.
My inner coach is myself and wants me to succeed. He knows my potential. He sees me sitting inside an empty classroom on the first bench. In front of the classroom is my critic whose job and habit and tendency is to bring any student down. My inner critic is old, biased, orthodox and thinks he knows everything about everything. My coach yells at him and shuts him down to the point that the critic starts stuttering and then realises his criticism is not going to work on me as long as my inner coach is around. He is already thinking of quitting bothering me and finding another weakling that will care for his inputs and criticisms. My inner critic is a coward himself and will scurry away from actually doing anything beneficial. He just talks and wants to influence anyone that cares to listen to him. My inner coach(the wise me) wants to protect me from such critics.
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My inner coach says I have many good qualities, I’m honest, caring and I’m a great partner. And that my issues are recoverable and that I should be proud for working on them.
My inner critic is a bully but he says mean things because he is scared for me
Critic - no way he actually keeps one going this time. He’s way too nervous and anxious.
Coach - he’s gonna have fun, relax, not gonna spectate, and just focus on how good it feels.
She wants you hard, like a porn star. She won’t be satisfied or she’ll doubt her sexiness if you don’t cum in her.
Coach: do you think less of yourself if she doesn’t come? Don’t you think she wants the affection and fun more than the porn star?
Inner coach helped to release the negatulive thoughts and feelings
inner coach says that you are not as good as her pervious lover and that this is the end of the relationship if you can’t get it up.
Inner coach says you are younger fitter, more attractive. she wants you she said she did.
Coach says you can masturbate and get an erection so its a matter of taking the pressure off and looking forward to it rather than dread
my inner coach is like my best self looking at my current state and explaining away all the bad things and highlighting the positive attributes and the ca do attitude
They are both me. Like the little angel and devil in cartoon. Whispering to my ears. Devil on the left. Judging me. Jump to conclusions… Ngel on the right. Reassure me. That I’m a successful man, good man, attractive man. Calm me down. Coach me. Counsel me.
Inner vrotic is just panic and gear when I really think about it. The worries go through my head so fast I can’t keep up.
Inner coach: No past experience can affect the future! You got this! You will enjoy sex and have fun!
Inner Critic: Will you get it up? You have before?
The inner critic is a worm, gnawing and whispering thoughts of inadequacy. My inner coach is an aura representing energy of the universe. This energy field is overwhelming to the worm. It is filled with love, positivity, and power. The worm’s whispers are drowned out by a thundering voice. The voice is angry that the worm would dare question it.
My inner critic is just my own voice in my head as I can be my own biggest critic a lot of the time, but it also presents as feelings I get in my body.
My inner coach was a strong & commanding but also kind & supportive voice, like Terry Crews, that challenges all those negative thoughts I hear in my own voice.
Inner critic: Will it work or is something wrong with you. Coach: Nothings wrong with you, it’s time to have some fun
Inner critic - she will leave you. Slight discomfort in my stomach when sex was mentioned.
Inner coach, based on fact - she loves you. You got this.
Inner critc said good luck getting it up…coach came in from the back outta nowhere and told inner critic to fuck off hes pleased his wife before and he will do it again!!!