Its me but being positive with myself
Critic = deluded devil on left shoulder. He says I’ll have to take viagra in order to not get a floppy & avoid total embarrassment.
Coach = wingman angel on right shoulder. She says ‘Classic deluded devil’… & refers to previous experience where I haven’t required said aid. Additionally, she reinforces how we’re going to dial in the focus on each sexual sensation to stay as present as possible.
Inner critic: you need to be better for her, last longer and stay hard. But you won’t.
Struggling to find the coach…
inner critic: i didn’t hear it.
inner coach: you are going to blow her back out, don’t worry you got this.
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My inner critic was not an evil characr but a chronic worrier. One scared to fail, be useless, and thrown away. One who felt discted from his own masculinity conn
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My inner critic was a shadowy figure who talked about how I can’t get it up so why should you be able to now and why I shouldn’t even bother because I’ll just get hurt. My inner coach appeared as a much larger, lighter/brighter figure with a deeper more booming voice, they offered rebuttals to the inner critic stating how I have and continue to make progress. The inner critic responded by pointing to my previous experiences and “why would it improve if the track record says otherwise”. The coach responded on logic, pointing out that past returns and not indicative of future results and that I’ve already seen improvements by challenging myself to improve.
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Helpful and has very good points
My inner critic is cold and shocking and makes me anxious, he’s is panicking and scared…He tells me she will leave if I don’t perform and that is all my fault, he also goes down the rabbit hole of what I may have done too “damage” myself as too why I cant perform
My Inner Coach is warm confident, playful and relaxed…He basically said, “You are the shit, so why you worrying about this little bullshit.” He looks at things with humor and berated the inner critic with simple logic, Like “If she leaves, that her problem, she just missed out” and “Your working on yourself and your getting better, stop asking for too much, you’ll be alright…Keep it up!”
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Critic: cowardly, manipulative.
Coach: authoritative, generous, kind, intelligent
Coach has the strong and friendly voice of my favourite lady friend. Supportive and helpful
I immediately started to feel a balancing of energy and the flow of energy shifted. When I brought in the coach the critic became silent. It was a calmer more cool headed me that gave no shits about the critics thoughts. Had good things to say in return. Not all of it was sexual based, the critic has been impacting other parts of my life like my hobbies. I’ve literally not started something because of the inner critic…
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Critic is my voice above and behind the right side of my head.
Coach popped out from the left side which surprised me, not used to hearing my inner voice from over there.
He felt a bit rusty in today’s exercise though, he’s going to have to sharpen up a bit!
My coach came from my left side and it was the fun part of me, when I felt me talking from the coach I felt happy and laughed it took over my head and shoulders
I felt my inner critic on my left side. It said “I am you.” Then when I was prompted to summon my inner coach, it said, “Not all of you. I’m you too.”
The inner critic argued that he was the most important part and the inner coach replied, “Not anymore.”
This exercise has made me very emotional. I feel hopeful.
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My inner critic told me I was both not enough and too much. Coach replied with evidence to the contrary
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My critic said my that I messed up my brain. My coach said it’s completely fine and the inner critic only makes me believe that to stop me from enjoying my partner
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The critic said I’m not going to be enough and the coach said I’m already enough
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Said my penis is fine in terms of size and erections. Also brought me ikages if good sex times where my penis worked OK.
The critic said that I’ve failed already and I’m gonna fail again while my coach said that I’m hard working and showed all my good qualities.
My inner critic says I`m not good enough to make my partner feel the woman she is