What is your foreplay like?

[lost-red-pelican]

What’s your foreplay like? What all do you do?

[manual-peach-canid]

Depends on the girl, learn what she likes.

[roasted-maroon-bass]

Foreplay starts 48 hours before physical contact, if not sooner. Fantasize about them, tease yourself, tell them how excited you are and how sexy they are to build tension. Sexting’s great but doesn’t have to be complicated or build up expectations. I like to keep details light but focus on passion. Once you get in the bedroom, let them guide you. Listen and learn what they like. Be brave and ask them for what you like. Have fun!

[superb-fuchsia-asp]

Ours starts with kissing, sometimes as I get to her place or she to mine… a lil make out and some feeling up through clothes. Then we go eat or whatever we’re gonna do.
After, more kissing. We make out like teenagers. I usually go to her neck, ears and chest, depending on what she’s wearing. As I undress her, I kiss, lick, suck any newly exposed skin… she’ll unbutton or pull off my shirt. She loves to kiss lick and pinch my nipples. (I think because she loves when
I do it to her!!!) sometimes she’ll go to her knees as she kisses her way down to my groin. She’ll unbutton my pants and start to suck me…
I can’t stand up for very long when she’s going down on me… I’ll pull her ip and kiss some more, then ill get behind, as I’m pulling off her top or dress….again kissing all newly exposed skin… I’ll gently bend her over the bed as I’m kissing my way down toward her ass. She wears the sexiest panties and I love it! I’ll end up on my knees kissing her as as I win my hands under her to play with her nipples. Drives her wild when I squeeze her breasts then pinch her nipples and roll them in my fingers…. Either with my mouth or my hands, I’ll slowly pull her panties down, kissing as I expose new flesh… by now she’s super wet and won’t ask, but I know she wants my tongue or fingers on her…. I’ll kiss all around her ass and avoid her pussy or puckered hole… she’ll reach back and spread her cheeks inviting me to touch her. I give in and gently bring a hand under her hot mound… she’s always freshly waxed and super slick with her own juices… I’ll give her clit a few gentle rubs over her hood, then start to tease her outer lips and everywhere except her clit. She can only take soo much of that till she whispers ‘please??’ Then I’ll dive a finger into her for a minute then go to work on her sensitive nub. By now her clit is super hard and protruding from its hood…. It’s not long till she’s whispering that she’s close and I start circles around her clit. Increasing pressure and speed till she’s doing all she can to keep from screaming…. I absolutely love making her cum with my hand or tongue… my PED has precluded me from penatatrative sex with he for the most part, but we manage to have a lot of fun otherwise……

[lost-red-pelican]

That’s fun to read. What are you doing for your PED?

[superb-fuchsia-asp]

I’ve been REAL up front with her.
I’ve been on this app for around 6 weeks. As a result, I’ve realized I have an unhealthy relationship with porn, a death grip, and PED. I’ve 90% quit porn and solo play a few weeks ago (I was a daily -if not more kind of guy…) . I’m on a 34 day streak on the app… I got really good at oral and teasing with my hands. As we’ve progressed in our love making, I’ve told her that her being confident in bed is super hot! Also that I really like explicit talk, not degrading, but the other night she was giving me a handy, she started encouraging me to cum- all over myself, her and her hand - then that she wants to taste it! Then kiss me! (WTF!!! OK!!) I’m very visual- I’ll focus on how cute she is, or how hot she looks lying there with her legs in the air with her sexy feet and toes in my face. Or I’ll watch my cock slide in & out of her mouth… She loves to describe when it gets hard in her mouth… I get hard during foreplay, but lose it when it comes to Effing her… I’ll breathe for a sec, and refocus on something sexy that I see- I love her feet! That usually works. I’ll also rub myself on her clit, sometimes it’ll get her off, which is also very hot and turns me on!
As for exercises- morning and night I do:
20 kegals
20 reverse kegals
20 Pelvic floor stretches (Exhale fully, clench abs and breathe deep, hold for 10- expands diaphragm down)
4-5 minutes of box breathing
**At night I’ll end with a meditation from the explore tab.
I’m also listening to the therapy sessions in explore as well.
I’m considering another app that focuses on many different kegal variations as well.

[superb-fuchsia-asp]

For my PED:
I 90% gave up porn and solo. I’m pretty committed to the app and the daily exercises. I was real honest with her and I’ve told her some of the things that really get me going like naughty talk, how to massage prostate from the front, I like hearing a slooppy BJ, her being confident in bed,… She’s super understanding and encouraging!
I also do a regimen of 20 kegels, 20 reverse, 20 diaphragm stretches (Exhale fully, clench abs, inhale deep and hold. It stretches your pelvic floor/diaphragm)
4-5 min of box breathing
**at night I finish with a meditation from the explore tab.
I do this morning and night.
I’ve seen a mild improvement in erection.
If anything, it’s allowed Viagra to work better…