The inner critic was me
It was me
It’s me, and it’s also whoever i’m with. it’s the thought of how they will think of me, it’sworrying too much about wanting to pleasure them and failing. it’s my past experiences. it’s worrying more about weather or not I can get hard than enjoying it regardless
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It is an ex of mine telling me that I am not worth it and that I should be and can be doing so much better
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My inner critic brought me thoughts of me potentially going limp, also thoughts of what my wife’s reaction would be to this happening again, her confidence and insecurity being triggered. Also past failures and mistakes.
Negativity
My past experiences warning me that it is gonna happen again
It was my ex, who would kindly but harshly tell me things like, “it’s just not possible for you to create a safe space for sex”, or after months of rejection, “it’s so good that your no longer using sex as medicine”
It was me but better, just a version of me that had everything I wanted and looked how I wanted to look and didn’t have any self image issues
Just anxious, worried about things not working out.
Fearful of not being able to keep it up or stay hard during intercourse
It kinda resembles me- just stressed out and panicking ove things that haven’t happened and might neve happen
It’s a feeling of panic, uncertainty, self-doubt & shame. Like something is wrong with me & I’ll always be this way. Never getting back to who I was before this problem started
A voice of perpetual fear of rejection
It was the ideal version of me better body more money better looks etc.
Me fixating on losing my erection and not being able to keep it up and perform. Occasionally an ex slipping into my mind in a comparison sort of moment.
It was the feeling of inadequacies that I have felt since my teenage years when Iwas too scared to even talk to girls. I always felt like I wasn’t big enough or just plain scared. Even in my late 20s I’m married and all that fear still exist.
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It is the feeling of not being able to satisfy my partner in bed during sex.
Worried about finishing before my partner.
The inner critic is me. Not wanting to mess up situations.