Just overthinking and being scared, anxious that I won’t come through and keep her waiting for me. Worried that if it takes too long she’ll leave me
It’s a little on my right shoulder that whispers and puts little thoughts and ideas of doubt in my head about me performing. It’s tells me about bad past experiences or everything I don’t want to think about, feel or, experience with sex.
Perhaps a seated version of myself.
Chaos
It wasn’t a person or anything like that, it was just a voice in the back of my head saying I will disappoint, telling me I need to do a good job because me doing a bad job will be the reason why she leaves
It’s my voice in the back of my head, which focuses too much on the outcome of the situation.
It’s a voice that tries to argue with me all the time
It’s not a voice but rather a feeling I get. I remember my inadequacies and focus on negative memories. It’s like I’m saying what if it goes bad? Like every step I take forward may be a last chance to right myself but I can’t, I can’t be present
Will I be to get hard and stay hard
Anxiety, uneasiness
It’s more so distractions / thoughts that turn me off or distract me
mine is a voice putting too much pressure on me and making me over think!
I feel I might be able to satisfy my partner, I am scared it might not work
They are just thoughts
Feels like my ex saying things
Stay hard, focus on wife
It’s it got a face, it’s my own ‘self consciousness’s’ voice. It takes the voice of the last person that I listened to, in this case the guided audio clip.
It is just me saying it to myself
Calm the fuck down. What’s that? Kids are coming. Kids can hear us.
An exs voice
My inner critic has gotten rather loud during this season. It reminds me of past failures & mistakes. It even tries to shush me when I speak against it. It makes me feel small, ashamed, & like Less of a man. It makes me want to shutdown & never try again. Its criticisms & tactics have been winning lately. Its overwhelming.
It’s losing the calmness and being too aware and focused on the other person and how my body might respond