Going limp in a crucial moment towards the beginning of sex. A few thrusts in and losing the sensation which mentally wrecks my confidence.
She’ll tell all her friends that I can’t keep it up. He’s not the man I thought he was. He’s not really a man at all. This was a mistake to be with him.
Ejaculating very fast, before my partner was even really able to begin to enjoy things
A general sense of anxiety and fear of failure. Picturing an embarrassing/failed interaction rather than something fun & enjoyable
I have extreme anxiety about it I moved back into school and all of a sudden I can’t just get it up anymore and it’s like a voice in my head freaking out. Times I do manage to get an erection it’s very soft and when I relax it goes away it’s very frustrating and thus brings the stress back
My inner critic tells me the length of our sex isn’t pleasing my girlfriend and she will leave me for a better situation
wont be enjoyable for my partner, wont be able to please her
Are you going to get it hard?
Will you be able to get hard? Will you last long? Are you able to please the woman?
You waited too long to have sex, now you’re behind everyone in skill and technique
“I’m not satisfied” - The Ex
“You’re going to ruin it again. You shouldn’t even try”
You’re nervous, what if you can’t keep it up?
Why even bother when you can’t get it up anyway
You just don’t have this urge anymore. You turned off the taps.
The constant need to perform and deliver.
She going to ride me and going to cum in two hops. Then she going to be disa
There’s multiple people, don’t embarrass yourself again and miss out on the fun and action.
I may not b erect or I may no be erect for long or i will cum quickl and I can’t satisfy her
A voice that pressures me, telling me I won’t be loved if I don’t perform well and if I don’t give her pleasure.