My inner critic causes my head to race. I feel as if my body goes into a state of panic when I think about sex.
My inner critic gives me the reminders whenever theres a possibility of having sex, that I wont last long and that I wont be able to maintain my erection. It tells me to stick to foreplay and oral but stay away from sex as it might put my partner off and she might lose all attraction.
My inner critic says that I won’t be able to keep an erection once again, that I might get hard but not stay hard and have to deal with anothe awkward conversion
My inner critic is telling me that I am not good enough and that I always have to be better than the last time or just better than the day before with everything.
My iner critic says I won’t last long enough
My inne critic is telling me that sex won’t turn out how I imagine it in my head. I’m not confident enough to do the moves that I fantasize about. I feel like maybe the sex would be better if I did those things.
My inner critic tells me I won’t keep it up because I’ve been watching too much porn
It’s not going to work tonight. What’s wrong with me and I’m less of a man for it
Fear of losing erection as it’s happened a few times in past year.
I’ve become so frightened of not being able to perform because of negativity from a former partner
My inner critic tells me I’m not going to be able to get hard and then only focuses on failed attempts to try
The inner critic tells me that I won’t be enough physically or sexually for the partner to enjoy sex
The inner critic doubts that’ll I’ll be hard enough for penetration and makes me envision a negative result
The inner critic thinks I’m too small, can’t possibly please my fiance with what I have. Also doubts that I will be able to get hard, or stay hard long enough for penetration. Also reminds me of all my failed attempts previously, and the doubt and shame it has caused both my partner and I.
Not being able to get hard or finishing quick if I can manage to stay hard
My inner critic tells me that I’m out of practice after divorce, and that it won’t be good experience and I can’t trust the other person.
Just wondering about how to get when better.
Worry that I’m not enough cant satisfy
Worrying about how long I’m gojng to last
She will regret wanting to sleep with me afterwards