If you get an erection, you’llbe fine. BUT you have no chance of getting an erection, and she’ll just be disappointed and turned off by the whole thing.
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You’re going to disappoint her. You can’t stay hard. You have to be hard to please her.
It’s when I get an error election and feels good. Then the inner critic comes in and starts making me doubt myself and staying hard and if my partner wants to be with me!
If it happened once, why wouldn’t it happen again? Just like last time, you won’t be able to remain hard.
If you don’t get hard and stay hard, she will be upset and I will be a failure as a man
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You’ve had a partner for a year now, and they have been really supportive. Why is this still a problem?
Don’t cum. There’s still so much room in there. She could take so much more
Am I good enough? Will she be happy?
My inner critic is an internal voice. My own voice. When I’m expecting sex, it tells reminded of all of the things I don’t like. It tells me to give up and that I won’t function the way I need to.
im super conscious about wanting perfect conditions for the moment. i dont want to disappoint, i dont want to want to overstimulate her, am i taking too long, if i finish i wont be able to go another round…
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My inner voice, wants everything to be perfect, and likes me to control everything, but with fear of failing
My inner critic waits till after foreplay to remind me I’m not hard, it tells me I won’t be able to please her and the experience will be ruined
My inner critic constantly tells me I won’t get hard, or won’t stay hard if I do get hard. If I am hard, it constantly tells me I’m not hard enough or will go down.
my inner critic is two thins, physical feelings and a voice. the physical feelings are a disgusting and gut wrenching feeling in my stomach. the inner voice says i’m not going to stay hard and my erection is never hard enough, she won’t enjoy it she won’t finish your not a man she could do and deserves a better penis than yours
My inner critic casts doubt and negativity on me the second something goes wrong, reminding me of past experiences and that I shouldn’t have even tried/should give up
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My inner critic tells me that my partner will be disappointed. It will say “what if I can’t get hard again” or “what if I finish too early again”. It’s put me off having sex so many times and I’ll only give oral because I know there’s no risk of disappointing my partner. I’m seeing this girl currently and she’s great. But I’m slow when it comes to taking that next step because I don’t want to ruin how it’s been going.
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My inner critic scolds me for having failed to get help with my physical and psychological relationship problems from an early age, missing out on so many opportunities for pleasure.
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My inner critic always points out when I’m not hard and rushes me to get hard quick or she’ll think there’s something wrong with me or that I don’t know what I’m doing
My inner critic tells me that I’ve never been good at maintaining a strong erection so I will totally not be successful this time either.
My inner critic throws doubt of my ability to pleasure my partner and if I’m lasting long enough for them to enjoy it as well. Often my inner critic keeps me from being open to switching things up such as new positions, it causes me to doubt my ability to preform and I loose my self in the thoughts.
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