Are you going to even be able to stay hard, she will notice
Can you even satisfy her?
It’s it worth the chance that it all goes wrong. It will just upset her or end in a fight
why I am so nervous… I will loose it. Definetely. Again. Once again. What a shame. I will be rejected. I am no man if I can’t keep erection. She will compare me and go to other men…
You’re ever able to fully satisfy your partners because you can never keep your erection. You’ll always be trapped with this problem along with your sexual traumas
Some fear that I won’t perform/respond as well as I want and my partner deserves. I’m in a new relationship and I feel some pressure to impress her.
Worried I won’t enjoy the experience and therefore she won’t either
Wanting a relationship so badly that I put too much pressure on myself in the moment.
Just the anxiety starts when thinkin
A sophisticated know it all. It likes to think it can see the future and tell me what I can or cannot do or enjoy
Very anxious to get things right. Feels pressure because of time.
Worried that I won’t please her , hold an erection and that I won’t enjoythe experience which makes me feel like Less of a man
It’s a thinking of not been able to perform, and my partner thinking I am nos “worthy” and maybe everyone will know
Sense of uncertainty, even though you want it but are you sure you can get it done?
So happy about having sex again and then the critic shows up and tells me: you won’t be able to do it, better don’t try, it will just be awkward again
My inner critic is afraid of what others will think of me. “You’re not good enough, strong enough, tall enough” is always a common theme.
My inner critic is taking away the joy I should feel when approaching sex and is telling me what will end up bein inevitable.
My inner critic causes me to overthink and second guess myself. It tells me “You’re not even hard” “you think this is satisfying your partner?” It leaves me feeling hopeless and anxiety begins to fester.
My inner critic is silent up until the clothes start to come off. That’s when it starts to pull me away and make me feel insecure about everything
My inner critic tells me it wil happen again and as i look down , it gets soft , here we g again