It tells me avoid sex at all cost because I can’t get a erection
Unsure but still confident in my past
He tells me in definitive language that I won’t be able to perform as expected. He reminds me of every past bad experience. And he tells me all the reasons in the present why I’ll have issues as well.
I know the exact moment when I will have sex or get the opportunity hours before actually happening and that’s when it kicks in
I get hard then immediately worry about losing it
I’m not showing enough interest in having sex with my wife and I worry that she’s going to lose interest and decide to look elsewhere
I won’t keep my erection and that I’m not satisfying my partner
I’m reminded of all the times that it hasn’t performed like I’ve wanted. Where I didn’t get hard or got soft before we were finished (or mostly before I was finished).
And worried that the next time will be like all the others.
My inner critic sets all focus on my penis, but not in a sensational way. It’s like a constant reminder to check if my penis is soft, reminding me of the humiliating feeling when it happens
Where as I am excitedto have sex the inner cric reminds of the time i went soft mid sex and the stress and aguish it caused me
My inner critic will tell me that I will finish again to quickly and the woman I love will be dissapointed
My Inner critic will tell me that I’m gonna ruin the night again by going soft
My inner critic tells me I disappoint a woman and myself if I don’t get hard. And it tells me I am not going to get hard probably. It also gives me a stomach ache
My inner critic tells me that I will go soft as has happened pretty much every time before, and the best thing to do is avoid sex.
My interpreter says i’m not going to get hard and it’s probably right
Inner critic reminds me of times I have previously failed in the bedroom and alerts me to the possibility it may happen again
My inner critic tells me I won’t get hard like these other times, and that I’m probably gay if I can’t get hard with such a beatiful girl (even though I know I want to have sex with her)
My inner critic around sex thinks of all the ways I could fail in the bedroom, including things both in and out of my control. Is my dick long enough? Thick enough? Am I hard enough? Will I last long enough? Is the other person enjoying it? Am I “good” at it, or is the other person faking? What will they tell their friends when I’m not around?
My inner critic has led me to avoid sex. When I feel things get sexual, or there’s any hint that someone I’m with is wanting to be sexual with me, I withdraw/retreat, because I know I’ll fail and I don’t want that embarrassment and shame.
My inner critic tells my sexual desires are wrong and obscene. This makes it so that getting elections is tricky. I was made fun of by a girl in grade school for getting an erection while making out. I’ve carried this with me my whole life and I feel that my desires, while sure, a bit unconventional are wrong. It also may explain some of them. I like to watch my wife getting fucked, maybe because I don’t have the confidence as much as I think she is deserving of as much as she wants.