My inner critic isn’t a voice, but a feeling. It’s a fear that I’ll go soft really quickly, which makes me focus not on my partner but on my penis. It’s an image of my partner feeling unsatisfied or disappointed after sex, not being able to climax because of my inability to perform. It’s the stress of thinking that I have to take the initiative in sex because that’s what is expected of me.
My voice self doubting myself telling me it won’t work
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I don’t hear a voice so much as I feel a nagging sense of nervousness that I’m going to disappoint my wife again. I start to preemptively feel guilt that my wife will blame herself when the fault is my own inadequacies
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Something telling me I won’t be able to come
My inner critic needs me to out perform and to be the best and I’m probably not big or thick enough. That’s when anxiety starts to hit
My voice telling myself that I’m going to go soft or that she will be disappointed
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It tells me I won’t be able to get or stay hard and that she will be left disappointed
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It’s my exes voice saying”it’s all in your head just calm down” and “why can’t we just have sex like that” when the neighbor was pounding his wife.
It is a sensation of fear, like I will fail and that makes me feel stressed. I can feel it in my chess and my arms… And then I start wondering about so many things it is overwhelming.
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its disappointment in myself, “what if i dont stay hard again” “what if it doesn’t fit” “what if she thinks its her” what will i do if that happens again
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Inner critic tells me you won’t satisfy her with your dick, it won’t be big enough or thick enough or hard enough
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“you can’t even eat hard… pathetic”
You can’t come for her.
It only feels good if you have hard sex.
You can’t stay hard
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Remind m that I’mlikely not going to stay hard. Need to stay focus an finish rather than enjoy sex… yes ofen times harder than a partner would like
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I feel fear, Just fear and I wanna cry
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Sex is how I prove myself to her. So, if I can’t get hard, that means I’m not enough for her.
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Any time before sex I start to recall all my previous failures. It frustrates me and break my confidence.
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I can’t get hard by imagining. I don’t want to engage in sex until I’m hard, I’m worried that I won’t get it up in time before she’s ready to have sex, so I just think it’s probably not going to happen.
I feel like a failure, like I’m not worth her time. Like I’ll never truly be wanted.
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My inne critic makes me panic. At first it starts as trying not ruin a moment, but then it spirals in to not making my partner happy, saying i will never be able to please. Maybe she will get dissapointed and leave at some point.