My inner critic seems to start with negative. Never positive. It loops false truths I’ve told myself or heard from hurtful people.
Resignation and apathy as a defence against anger and sadness at the loss of something deeply desirable and beautiful
My inner critic is myself, and it makes me feel like I won’t be enough to satisfy my partner
My inner critic tells me I’m not enough. That I won’t be able to satisfy my partner. She’ll be thinking about other men, that my penis is not right for her. That I don’t know what I’m doing/my body is disgusting. It makes me want to hide away because it’s safe for me to do so
I usually enjoy going down on my partner before piv. However, if i go down for too long, i lose my erection in time before piv. Now i want my partner to be ready for me and i don’t want to just jam it in, but i also don’t want to lose my erection. this leads to overthinking that precipitates the loss of my erection
My inner critic tells me that I’m going to disappoint my husband - that it’s going to be awkward and uncomfortable and that I am less of a man because I cannot stay hard when he wants it
It always wants to assume I’m not going to do something well if it’s been awhile or I’m not experienced with something
If my inner critic were a person it would be the type of person where nothing is ever good enough, always focuses of negatives. It tells me how important it is to perform and that I’m probably only going to last seconds. It makes me fearful that I will disappoint.
My inner critic feeds my current distress with my past experiences of negative outcomes
My inner critic tells me, I will fail again and disappoint my partner. I will not satisfy her.
I feel like I have to keep plan my way to sex. Like this is what I should do to get hard. Once Is hard I should do this so we can have sex immediately before I lose my erection.
I feel my past experience made me feel I am inexperienced and don’t know what I need to do
My inner critic tells me that my penis is not big enough. That I won’t be able to satisfy my partner in a way that I any to satisfy her. That I wont be able to fuck her in the positions I that I want to. That I can’t let her ride me cowgirl because it’ll slip out. That I can’t keep a rock hard erection to fulfill her and that I won’t last long enough to satisfy her.
These thoughts actually make me drift towards cuck and hotwife porn where the men have huge members. Then it makes me fantasize about that but really I think I just wish I was that big.
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My inner critic has poor self image and worse self control. It reminds me of embarrassing past situations I got myself into. It’s hurtful how I refuse to love myself.
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My inner critic tells me that I’m going to be boring. That I’m again going to cum too fast and she won’t be satisfied. That I am not enough and not creative enough. I suck at fucking essentially
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My inner critic is constantly reminding me I’m not good enough. I don’t look great, I can’t get it done in bed, I can’t do anything right. No amount of work is enough to overcome how inadequate I am.
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Mine says my partner isn’t enjoying this. Why can’t you stay hard. Why can’t you cum
My inner critic is already anxious at each sexual encounter with my wife, trying to plan my way out of my WD issue, and it becomes a spontaneity-sapping self-fulfillibg prophecy.
My inner critic reminds me of the past times I couldn’t get or stay hard, couldn’t cum. I then get in my own head and fight or flight kicks in
The constant worry of what I do something wrong and can’t be the best partner. I can’t stay hard or provide the satisfaction needed or cum.
Cynical
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My inner critic won’t let me keep an erection because I’m not worth it. She doesn’t really want me I’m just a place setter
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