What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 2)

Cutting out porn all together and making better use of my time

I want to use it less. And use it when I want to, not when I need it or coming from boredom. Also, not sacrificing an activity or too much time (that I can’t afford to lose) because of porn.

I don’t want to fill guilty when I use it for a “good” reason. And I don’t want to feel dirty, disgusting and weak for it.

I want to change my reliance on it. I want to stop resorting to it every time I am bored, feel depressed or need to self soothe.

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I want to stop using it as a distraction or when I’m bored. Start using it in more inspired ways that are not just self-abuse.

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The need I have for it to get hard or have sex. I wanna be turn on by my partner and not just porn

I want to listen to audio porn and read more erotica.

I want to reshape my relationship with porn, not ruling it out altogether. I want to feel less shame around it and will also start experimenting with audio stories

I want to stop using porn as much. Since I started dating my new partner, I have basically stopped completely because I don’t need it anymore because she’s so beautiful. I only need her.

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Fix situational erotic issues with partner sex versus porn

I want to stop using porn because I am in a new relationship. I would like to get hard and stay hard with just my girlfriend. I don’t want to need porn to get off.

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I only want to watch porn with my wife, she enjoys it too

I want to use porn only occasionally during the week. I would rather quit it all together when I get a girl (unless she likes porn too)

Use occasionally, not every single day

Having watched porn from a young age, and having had a poor sex life because of being reliant on it for sexual arousal, being with a new partner which I’m very much sexually attracted to I’ve made the decision to stop watching it, maybe not for forever, but in the short term I’m going to stop to focus on real sexual connection and intimacy

More audio erotica and still images

I’d like to not end every day watching porn. Reading it or listening to it seems like a better route

Use occasionally whilst single (as now) and not at all when in next relationship

Maybe use it less and my imagination more.

I would like to find other hobbies that make me happy other than sex.

I want to feel I can get hard without relying on visuals. I have started using past sexual experiences or my imagination to get aroused before watching porn.