What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 2)

I don’t use that junk anyway.

Quit relying on porn as a boredom eraser/procrastination tool. I’d like to stop completely at some point, I think it leads to me having unrealistic sexual expectations for my partners and myself.

Evenings only just to watch with my wife to spice it up and for the sexy back ground noise

I’d like to rely on it less, do other things that make me feel good that have the same stress relieving qualities.

Porn destroys lives. Don’t use it.

I think I’d be more productive and more confident if I stopped using it. I’d like to be able to break the pattern that I have when I use it.

Not using it when bore or alone all the time. Not using it as a distraction from what I should really be doing. It’s good for a “release” but the intimacy of actual sex is what I really crave.

I think I’d be better off without porn in my life at all. I feel it can be degrading to all those involved. And I definitely don’t want to watch another man with a woman I find attractive, that doesn’t sit right with me. I’m okay with videos and pictures sent to me by someone I know in real life. I want my sex drive and fantasies to be fully calibrated to reality. I don’t want to spend time fantasizing about things I can’t have. And I want the women in my life to receive all my sexual energy.

Don’t want to watch porn at all. I feel
like I watch porn everyday and that desensitized me in a way that i cannot have sex with my partner until
I am able to visualize that during actual sex.

This section has made me aware that i often go to porn when Im stressed or feeling complicated emotions. Working out can be a better soothing option.

Less guilt associated

Address feelings of guilt

Nothing really I can stop watching anymoment, although I enjoy it sometimes, probably will switch to audio instead of visuals to vary a little bit.

Less guilt associated with it. Also to be more easily aroused without requiring porn

I would like to not use porn as an escape from emotional turmoil. An would like to be able to want to do something other than just watch porn the second I have no one around.

I want to put my mind to something more productive than porn when bored at home alone. I want to read more so will try and do that instead as a substitute

I wood like to use porn not to escape some kind of anxiety and boredom.

When I wake up I’m hard and I can’tstart my da without jerking off to some porn to relief fro my erection.

I would like to find others to enjoy porn, not just video

Porn is just a means to an end. Quick and selfish satisfaction to relieve stress and anxiety

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