What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 2)

❓ Course questions
4462

I want to stop porn completely. My partner turns me on and I want her to be my sole source of pleasure and fantasy.

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4463

Try more audio or erotic stories and stay away from visual porn. Ideally I would refrain in general because I do tend to binge when I start. If I could limit it to once a day without binging then that could also be an option but I think that would be tougher for me at the moment.

4464

I want a sex life that is so good that I never feel any desire to watch porn because real sex is just as accessible

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4465

I want to stop the habit of porn being the first thing I look at when I wake up. I don’t even feel very turned on by it, it’s more just the novelty of what new amateur pics are up. Quickly followed by feeling like I’m doing something I shouldn’t, and that my wife would be sad and disappointed if she knew about it.

4466

I want to be less reliant on unrealistic visual stimuli and explore other forms of eroticism, increasing my ability to find and enjoy pleasure outside of porn.

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4467

I want to watch porn only if I am horny, not if I am stressed or bored

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4468

To feel less ashamed by it

4469

I want to work on self improvement activities and not manage my boredom with porn

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4470

I want to use porn less.
It’s the thoughs not just the watching and masturbating.

4471

I want to stop giving it such importance and disconnect from it all together

4472

I want to stop using it as an escape way from human connections

4473

To not feel so ashamed by it

4474

I want to use it less, and not make it like a everyday thing

4475

I am convinced it’s an addiction for me. There are days it consumes my mind. Especially if I’m hungover. There are times it seems the only way to get it off my mind is to watch porn and beat off. I’ll go a week without watching it, but once I do again I need more of it. I’ll go on a binge beating off 10-15 times a day. Looking for more extreme porn each time. Watching stuff that I would never actually consider doing myself.

I have an amazing girlfriend that I am very attracted to. She’s so understanding and patient with my ED. I want to be better for her. For us.

4476

I just don’t want to use it.

4477

I want to not rely on porn or porn grade fantasies to get an erection with a partner when the opportunity arises.

4478

I did stop watch a while ago but all the information about reasons why it’s so exiting in the story we’re really helpful, I definitely have felt guilt all my life for watching porn and didn’t know that made it exiting

4479

I don’t want to use it as an excuse to procrastinate when I have things to be doing. I feel like it’s made my relationship with self pleasure become something like a chore/task than actual pleasure and relief, which has affected my sex life.

4480

Just reduce it down. Not look at porn most days. Use my imagination more and develop that sense of sensuality rather than what feels like a more superficial rush and release.

Just want a healthier balance.

4481

I feel ba after watching it so want to remove it