What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 1)

I want to rely less on the visual stimulus and death grip, and find arousal in the other senses

Not use it as a coping mechanism for when I’m bored or anxious. Also, take the shame and guilt out if it. And trying to find a healthy balance of how often and when I access it.

Not use it to masturbate any more

I’ve had a very unhealthy relation with porn where I watched it compulsivelyfor a variety of reasons. The main driver though, was the thought that I’ll never find a partner and I’ll always be alone.

However, I have managed to stay free of porn for several years with some relapses along the way. They all led to going back to nasty stuff unfortunately.

Now that I’m in a relationship I want to stay free of it until I overcome my ED. I will probably like to develop a healthier relationship with it and learn to appreciate the simple, vanilla stuff that won’t result in me feeling bad about myself, but rather remind me that sex is a beautiful thing.

I might watch porn a couple times a month, I don’t think I’d really change anything, I could take it or leave it, I don’t feel like porn is why I’m here.

Getting turned on by not only reverse cowgirl but more positions and intimate bits

I want to not use it at all.

want to watch full intercourse often

Not to feel guilty while watching it. Also not doing it just out of boredom

I want porn to not be an escape haven when I feel like I want to have sex but it’s actually not a good time to have sex (wife isn’t home, concentrated on other things,.etc). I want porn to be a guilt-free, occasional pleasure that is as easy to give up as it is to pull up on your phone.

I feel like my porn use is in a much better place currently. I defenitely use it a lot less than I used to and try to limit the amount I consume.

I believe I was addicted to porn. In order to prevent the urge to watch, I want to find other healthy ways to channel my energy. Meditation, reading, practice my breathing, gardening.

I would like to eventually stop.

I feel like it makes me feel smaller. Like having an unrealistic image of how sex is. I want to not watch it all together to see if that helps with my performance in the bedroom and my erections.

Find something else to do instead of watching.

I’m addicted to giantess fantasy porn, feet, and scat… I want to get away from the weird stuff watch normal porn and get back to a great sex life

I want to reduce how much I rely on porn as a way to relieve stress. To do ther activities instead of looking for born when I’m bored and looking for something to do. To not let porn make me procrastinate from doing other tasks

Cheating often got me aroused in porn and I don’t plan to be a house wrecker so I figured I’d better find other genres because that could also cause erection issues if I’m relying on that kind of thing to get hard.

I would like to have other ways to relax myself, right now this seems the only one I use consistently

it’s honestly hard to tell if i can say im addicted - yet posing the question in a way answers it. i’ve had off and on relationships with porn and at one point it did have an impact on my sexual performance and confidence. through work, i overcame that stage of my life but i feel as though there is still work needing to be done. i dont feel guilty for watching it but i understand too much is an issue and i beat myself up for that especially if i watch for consecutive days. i want to keep my porn consumption to a minimum