I want to stop watching it so frequently and become more in tune to what my body is actually asking of me. Deep down I know that watching porn for yet another day in a row isn’t the solution, but it’s almost like I’m ignoring that rational side of me. I want to overcome my weakness to this impulse and develop a healthy relationship with it.
I’d like to stop using porn as a habitual practice to combat boredom when I’m traveling alone, make it less routine and be more mindful of how I’m feeling. Asking myself am I horny and really want to have an orgasm to feel satisfied or am I bored or anxious and using it to procrastinate from other things or numb other feelings of loneliness or anxiety.
Porn isn’t a go to for me, but I do enjoy watching a wide variety of porn. It’s the visual stimuli is, the sounds she makes, etc.
I think my pressure is in trying to make my sexy time more like the fantasy of the porn.
Just to feel comfortable in my own use, and to not use it as a procrastination tool
I used to watch a lot for hours consistently for years and created a lot of guilt and shame about it. Currently I have stopped and don’t feel at all compulsive to do it, but my sex drive has disappeared as I moved through a difficult time in my life. Now rebuilding, I am choosing to stay away from porn and working to remove guilt and shame from sexual attraction which this course is already helping. Removing sexual shame is the most important part atm as it is what affects my view on sex
I feel like I watch it too often and it is affecting my normal sex life
Not a filler for actual intercorse. Not a coping mechanism when I’m upset or things didn’t go my way.
I want to stop masturbating for a few weeks as I feel I do it compulsively. I want to try and do other interests when bored.
I want to develop healthier ways to self soothe my anxieties that stem from work, procrastination, deadlines etc. I feel like I relied exclusively on PMO to the determinant of developing other life skills.
I want to develop healthier ways to self soothe my anxieties that stem from work, procrastination, deadlines etc. I feel like I relied exclusively on PMO to the determinant of developing other life skills
I want to be able to control my usage and not feel guilty when I do. I recognize now that porn isn’t the problem, but maybe the way that I consume it or the compulsion to use it is the problem.
I need to stop.substituting it for being in the moment and replacing what is or was lacking in my relationship. My ED issues have been prevelant for over 15 years likely down to a mix of self confidence, unrealistic expectations and lack of sex drive. Porn has become a stress relief so my relationship to it has become very selfish and I feel it has disconnected me emotionally from real.life. however, recently I have recognised that this may be one of my issues plus suffering from a medical issue that meant I didn’t feel the need, due to pain, to masturbate at every opportunity. Interestingly, despite the ongoing medical issue easing my need for consistently watching porn has eased.
To read or watch other entertainment than watch porn. Not to feel guilty after having watched porrn.
I want to use porn when I want to use porn, not when I feel a compulsive need to seek it out to help roleplay certain fantasies. I want to only use porn in the evenings after I’ve taken care of tasks like making dinner, washing the dishes and going to the gym. I want to use porn less often, more as a treat than a standard part of masturbating. And I want to be more confident in staying present in the moment during sex and not needing to rely on images or fantasies related to porn in order to stay hard or finish.
I want to stop relying on porn to feel better mentally, or avoid doing tasks. I want to stop relying on porn to feel pleasure.
Realizing that the sex they have in porn scenes is unrealistic and that’s not how real sex looks like. I used to watch porn, masturbate, and climax every single day, most often 3-4 times a day. I would use it as stress relief. I have stopped watching porn, I now only watch it maybe once every two weeks if I’m bored. I just don’t want it part of my routine anymore.
More variety of porn. Use it to take longer and enjoy watching sex, rather than to instantly satisfy an urge.
To watch more varieties of porn. Use it properly to enjoy watching sex rather than satisfying a quick urge.
I want to stop watching porn before getting out of bed so that i don’t delay the start to my day and be lazy.
I want to cut ties with porn completely, but it’s everywhere, softcore on Instagram too. Everywhere you turn there is half naked women creating the urge to turn to porn