Avoid doing it as a way of soothing to fall asleep - find a better time, place, and reason. This is everything that leads to my guilt because it feels like avoidance, and compulsive behaviour. It also makes it more regular than it needs to be leading to stimulation issues
I want use it less often and use my mind.
Want to watch more realistic amateur stuff with more variety focusing on pleasure.
I want to replace my usage of porn with playing the guitar.
Use it less often. I can get hard instantly from porn but struggle with a partner. I think cutting out porn may help me with that, and might help me develop a better relationship with sex overall.
I haven’t watched porn in over a month but I used to be really addicted to it
I want to break free from it. I feel like it’s taken control of me a bit and sometimes perfect porn than sex.
I think I’ve just gotten used to watching it and look for those certain videos that’ll make me cum.
i want to stop using PMO as stress or boredom relief and really focus on arousal only.
I want to watch porn less often and use my imagination more. When I watch porn I want to watch with more variety. If I am feeling guilty after I came when I was watching porn, I want to release that guilt through meditation or breathing exercises.
So starting porn was obviously the biggest mistake. But I watched porn to completion daily for 10 years and still had great sex. However when I got a girlfriend and quit porn and masterbation, I had what’s called flatline in sex drive happen. It was like I had 0 sex drive for the first time. from that point on have struggled to get or keep any erection at all and I do a lot of things to change the mood when women try to initiate sex
I want to limit my time watching porn to night time instead of whenever I’m bored and instead choose to do something more productive with my time i
When I do watch it, the ability to discipline myself of getting aroused first without any sense of touch. Just fantasize and sounds.
I want to feel the excitement for fairly vanilla sex with my partner the way I do for porn, sometimes really kinky porn.
I would like to add more variety to the porn I watch. As well, I’d like quit using porn as a crutch when I’m bored in the mornings or at night. Lastly, I’d like to explore other senses while masturbating.
I masturbate WAY too much - many times a day - and with a technique I think might be directly related to inability to get hard. I do wonder whether stopping watching for a while and trying to control masturbatory excess might work my main concern which is about getting hard
I think I want to avoid it for now and focus on figuring out what makes me turned on naturally instead of forcing it
My feelings of being alone and not in a relationship brings me to watch porn as I feel unworthy of having a relationship again after my divorce I feel the rejection of a woman is to much so I feel the pleasure of using porn to be my escape
I don’t want to use porn as a procrastination strategy, not for coping with stress. I would rather use it as a reward for accomplishing what I set out to do with my day.
I think my porn use is generally healthy. I can cum and maintain easier with porn, but that’s because there’s less anxiety by myself. I use porn to relax, to blow off steam and to work myself up for fantasies that are upcoming in my sex life. If there’s one thing I’d want to change, it’s not feeling bad when my partner “catches” me. I feel like I’m getting in trouble.
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