What did you think of visualization?

Still experiencing an elevated heart rate and faster breathing. I have a vivid imagination and past experiences to think about but still no erection though I know this is a process. It won’t happen overnight. The fact I don’t think negatively about it lends to me winning the mental war. Im just being patient while my mind rewires and resets after the porn addiction.

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Visualization was good, some arousal build but not erect.

The visualization was stimulating, but I did not get a route. I’ll keep trying.

First time trying this exercise. I found it quite frustrating, it feels far from from most recent experiences so I just can’t visualise this. My underlying insecurities/inner critic are still there and I can’t block them out during this exercise.

Actually very well, I had a slim worry in the beginning but I tried to stay focused and present in the imaginary moment

While I didn’t get a raging boner, I did have an easier time with the visualization and sensations. Progress!

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I didn’t get hard, just tingly feelings, but I think that’s not the point. I did feel a strong sense of hope and possibility for future experiences, mainly because I could clearly picture, visualize and feel most of what was said.

I got hard. I didn’t think I would

Good experience and got a semi

I got hard just be visualizing, which was great

Still a little too much monkey brain.

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Still having bad thoughts want to control

Couldn’t really focus

Very vivid felt really good could feel myself start to get hard

Trouble keeping out negative thoughts, but felt like important practice, especially when I have had so many good sexual experiences with my partner. Lately, it’s just all feeling negative and depressing.

All mentally there with words and everything going very well. There was a stirring in reality but not an erection.

Stayed focused

I could picture the scene before me, but I had trouble having an erection. That played in my head continually, which increased my stress and anxiety. I told myself that being soft is okay and that I do not need to be hard to enjoy this moment.

It was so clear like it was a dream