So I have this new lady after 2 years since splitting from a 30yr marriage. She is a bit younger than me at 36.
Trouble is I cum super quick, she is super tight and it’s taken a wee while for her to enjoy without pain, so cumming quick hadn’t been a major problem.
Now I’m trying to last longer, when I manage to get my head right detach from feeling too good, it flips to where I struggle to cum and I worry about not being able to finish.
Seems no way to enjoy without anxiety of being to quick or not able to finish.
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How do you solve this problem cuz i have the same thing happening to me be it even gets hard I come some times
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I haven’t solved it, but I have found the more intimate or loving I’m feeling the quicker it happens, if I can emotionally detach then I can last but there is also the risk of if I detach too much I won’t even be able to get hard
Wow I feel the same way …