To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships?

Notu much at all . My wife was sexually assaulted before we met and it scarred her. I feel like my domineering fantasies will disturb her, and the thought of doing it to her (in particular) makes me feel ashamed

I don’t have a partner currently but when I do, it’s essential I can tell them all my fantasies, and I want to hear theirs too.

It plays a crucuual role i u can make.it happen for real whenn u think bout it but at the same

I’m very lucky, after years in an emotionally abusive marriage where she used sex to control me, I have a new healthy partner who is very open sexually.

They are really just used in my head I don’t voice them often. But they do turn me on.

I’m enjoying welcoming fantasy. A k into my life, building my imagination again and not simply going to porn

I definitely have not fantasized much lately since I do feel guilty about doing it. Especially when I am with a partner. I will try to be more open to the idea going forward since they really are just for me

Somewhat they are but not a lot.

I want for us to have more public sex

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She said Ashe doesn’t fantazise. I always do when masturbating and sometimes during sex. I would like for all to share fantasies and see if we would want to make any come true.

Occasionally, I’ll think of different scenarios with past lovers when I’m masturbating, but don’t fantasize much during sex

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Right now sexual fantasies involving my partner are a partnof my life and I enjoy it alot. I have frequently used fantasies of others in previous relationships but I’m very attracted to my current partner. So some of the fantasizing with others feels like cheating. In addition I also am cherishing the feeling of being g so attracted to my current partner

Less so over the years, it used to be to be a big part as a teenager and in my 20s. This course has definitely inspired me to rethink that

My girlfriend does a good job of letting me play with her ass and that is my biggest turn-on and fantasy.

I will extend m fantasy bank and try and share one again with my girlfriend

I’ve shared a personal and embarrassing fantasy with my wife and she’s tried to be supportive and engage with it. However, because she doesn’t share the fantasy, I need to direct her and I feel somewhat embarrassed to do that, and ashamed about some of her reactions to the fantasy.

Sexual fantasies are not part of my life or relationships. I grew up in a religious culture and household that considered them sinful and when I left religion I reprogrammed fantasties as objectifying and patriarchal. I feel really disconnected from fantasization and want to reconnect

I have a lot of sexual fantasies, but never act on these in sex which I want to start doing

Make those a real trigger for Erections would be gold!

A pretty big amount but I am very fortunate that I am able to bring my fantasies to life as my lady friends are very open and enjoy mine and I theirs. They suggest new things and I do and is always great fun.