To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships?

I stopped having them a long time ago as I tried to push away sexual feelings. Now I struggle to create them or feel weird when I do. It is actually very frustrating and not very arousing.

Sexual fantasies are a part of my sexual development in the sense that it gives me a feeling to strive fo in the bedroom, or it can be a past experience that I’m very grateful for having

I want to share the fantasies with my partner which will not her !

It has always been part of my sex life privately

It has been an important part that I have locked out

It’s been a mix of private and shared fantasies.
We talked about some of them earlier in our relationship, but not much since then.

I have a lot of fantasies and enjoy them on a regular basis alone. I shared my main one with my wife, wanting to watch her with another man and it didn’t go very well and kind of freaked her out

sometimes i feel my fantasies supercede my real life sex life

My wife and brought our fantasies to life by opening up our marriage, and honestly it has been incredible and so much fun

Every now and then me and my partners talk about fantasies with each other and try our best to achieve them in the future.

Not really but there is just some simple things that I know would turn my wife on. I just want to be more forthright about what turns me on. Like if I told her my dream blow job she would “practice” it on me with all her might I’msure. But I’ve only justt started to be able to tel her those things

Acting out more fantasies in the bedroom. Had affairs in the past which meant the sex was always explosive, dangerous and in different places. Kind of want to recapture some of that in my current relationship.

Wish they were more, have far to many I would like to act on and wish my wife would share hers, so I can help out with them and ask me about mine.

I thought they were more of a taboo and something to be avoided as I wasn’t present or giving them my attention

My biggest active fantasy is actually not sex, but to hold her close while her head rests on my shoulder. Just that. This is also my “reward” after a session of sex with her, though the sex is also its own reward.

Not a lot. I am so immersed in my erection issues that I won’t give a thought to my sexual fantasies.

More and more, ever since I’ve come off pornography, my sexual fantasies have increased in intensity, where I get considerably hard from them.

A little as I am just hooking u with people at the moment and share what I would like to do to them

Usually they’re only in my head, buni’ve started to open up with partners. I found that keeping it inside made me feel shame, so it was very liberating to be able to share

I’m stuck using fantasy because my girlfriend and aren’t having much sex. We have a lot of issues to work out. Hoping we can make progress.