Ww have discussed them
I’ve used fantasy in the past while having sex and it kind of worked, but I was still thinking about my erection. I think I will use fantasies in the future probably before sex to be more aroused at the start.
I’m not sure if using fantasy will be the same as using porn… Why is it different?
I wish I was not ashamed of my fantasies and willing to share them with my partner
They aren’t a huge part at the moment because I’m learning to curb my porn compulsion but I would definitely like to replace any thoughts of porn with fantasies of my own.
They can be a way to share and connect, but there are some to share and some to keep to yourself. Share the ones you want to enjoy with your partner. Hold the ones that belong in your past, or that you just want to enjoy yourself, and not in real life.
My girlfriend likes a rolling commentary while we have sex. I would like to become more fluent in not just describing what is currently happening but describing fantasies to her, making them up as I go to fit the situation
Just for masturbation. I prefer to keep.my self focused on the momment for real sex
I want to incorporate them more into my dating and sex life
I want myself and my partner to explore more sexual
Fantasies so we can have more fun in bed
Just started. Will definitely try to use
Not in a relationship, but I always appreciate a partner who is happy to open up about fantasies.
I’d love to explore fantasies with my partner; I think we’d be able to build on them and probably get some realized
Discussing fantasies helps bring me and my girlfriend closer and feel more secure.
Minor
Not really but very open to creating a few to help in the moment. I have shared previously with my partner and she indulges one that she is comfortable with.
I don’t have a bank of fantasies yet. I need to start creating them. I felt guilty before from my upbringing and I want to change that.
Pretty much a consistent thing. I’ve shared all of them with my girl and we have a good idea which we will try at some point
Not really but I can see how they might help.
My girlfriend and I are very open about our fantasies.