To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships?

fresh-coffee-koala · June 4, 2024, 1:07pm

I want to use fantasies to help me stay hard or get hard again when I go soft.

exceptional-copper-sole · June 4, 2024, 5:50pm

I want to go slower with my fantasies to help with the buildup of arousal

horizontal-white-jay · June 8, 2024, 3:22pm

I want to use my fantasies now, I thought I shouldn’t do it with a partner

genuine-blue-pike · June 11, 2024, 10:57pm

I really used to think fantasies during sex was a distraction and part of the problem. I guess not.

outside-lime-fox · June 13, 2024, 2:53am

I like the idea of turning to fantasies when I’m getting anxious sexually. A good countervailing practice, though it will take work.

colorful-beige-smelt · June 13, 2024, 10:58pm

I want to use my fantasies to get hard and finish inside my wife, but probably won’t do any in real life.

mere-bronze-pike · June 15, 2024, 3:33pm

I need to rekindle my fantasies. I seem to have forgotten most of them.

asleep-sapphire-hyena · June 16, 2024, 5:30pm

To generally feel more in connection with my mojo and at times be able to flirt or give out a more sexual vibe to be more interesting to women in this way.
Most of my interactions with the opposite sex feel like a Brother Sister connection.
I am not sure if this is because most of the women I meet I don’t have a sexual connection with or I just don’t have the confidence to express my sexual side as it is not an aspect of life I have had any success in.
However I am trying to improve my social life and meet more people and if I can improve my erotic bank it may help me generate some romantic connections.

latin-lavender-tarantula · June 19, 2024, 5:25pm

Start thinking of my fantasies instead of panicking when my arousal drops

semantic-amethyst-dormouse · June 19, 2024, 9:07pm

Start thinking of fantasies if I’m having trouble. See if that works. Start with enjoying the moment and use a fantasy as a back up

content-blush-tapir · June 19, 2024, 10:25pm

More diversity

balanced-azure-koi · June 21, 2024, 6:02am

More, dirty talk

compatible-purple-squid · June 21, 2024, 7:37pm

While my main fantasy happened with an ex girlfriend, my current girlfriend and I have had some very nice fuck sessions that can be added to the erotic bank. I’ll work on that.

local-tan-junglefowl · June 22, 2024, 5:15pm

To use fantasy as a fun tool to help if I start negatively getting in my head and affecting my erection.

careful-indigo-mammal · June 24, 2024, 4:20am

I want to start fantasizing when Im anxious during sex or going soft… I need to build up my fantasy bank and work on mt fantasies during longer in my head

marvellous-red-kangaroo · June 27, 2024, 5:10am

I want to explore more Fana tastes

cool-gray-hawk · June 28, 2024, 3:15am

Stop feeling guilty about my fantasies.

sharp-olive-lemur · June 29, 2024, 5:44pm

I want to use fantasy as a distraction from anxiety

courageous-sapphire-hedgehog · July 1, 2024, 2:00pm

Start talking fantasy with my partner

sorry-bronze-harrier · July 3, 2024, 10:58pm

I used to feel deep shame for my fantasies and guilt about not being present for my partner, but I love this new perspective. I’m going to allow myself to keep my engine revved with a bit of fantasy if I need to.