To what extent are sexual fantasies part of your life and relationships?

I want to use fantasies to help me stay hard or get hard again when I go soft.

I want to go slower with my fantasies to help with the buildup of arousal

I want to use my fantasies now, I thought I shouldn’t do it with a partner

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I really used to think fantasies during sex was a distraction and part of the problem. I guess not.

I like the idea of turning to fantasies when I’m getting anxious sexually. A good countervailing practice, though it will take work.

I want to use my fantasies to get hard and finish inside my wife, but probably won’t do any in real life.