It all about the women some like rough some like soft, some like oral some don’t, gotta first understand then pleasure
Nipple play. Tickling, sometimes. Polka dotting (I didn’t know that term) and, when ready, a big ol’ raspberry…
asking them what they want
What they like specifically. E.g. my wife doesn’t like receiving oral (ever) due to her body confidence issues, so this technique will really help.
My wife likes receiving oral
Kissing the neck
My wife likes her vagina licked and sucked
Nipples but only leading up.to it
I find sucking on the clit while pressing on the g-spot really effective. but gotta work up to that
Every woman is different.. but flick her nipples with my tongue while sucking always works.
Slow progression applying varying levels of pressure around the inner thighs… stay away from the valve progress to Soft pinches, pulling of skin moving inwards to the fleshy outside of the vulva… watch her start squirming
Kissing the neck, licking on the clit