I first got this app about 6 months ago, I had just started having sex after a long time and I was dealing with erectile problems. I struggled to get a erection or couldn’t keep one, evening or morning. I found that two things were having the biggest impact, one obvious one was that I was drinking a lot on dates, which tied into the second, larger, problem. I was really nervous about sex and insecure about myself. To help I bought some ed meds, these helped a lot as I could now keep an erection but didn’t sort the underlying issue. Then one morning, with someone who I’d been seeing for a while, I was able to get and keep morning wood, we had sex and I finished for the first time in a long time. What had changed was that I was comfortable with this person, I felt that they were attracted to me. The most important thing was feeling desired and being on the same page. Having one night stands had been difficult because I had either drunk to much or didn’t feel comfortable enough. I still have some problems, spontaneous sexual acts in the day are difficult for me but, for me at least, everything was tied into confidence. So if I can give any advice I would say communicate, let your partner know the problems you might have and that having equal feeling of desire help. On dates my partner will make it obvious that she wants sex afterwards which not only turns me on but helps me feel confident. Lastly being honest, having ed stuff ready to take did help a lot with confidence in the beginning, I don’t need to take it now but to start with it did help bring back that security about my own performance. I hope any of this might help someone but it was also just good to get it out !
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