So long and thanks for all the... :)

🙌 Success stories
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Thanks to the amazing team and community at Mojo.

I set out to complete a 100 day streak and I did. After 100 days I feel more normal, more natural and more confident. I realized that I was not alone, that sometimes ‘sh#@t’ happens to all of us. Nobody is immune from feeling sad, inadequate, unconfident from time to time. However, the Mojo app, the training, the box breathing, the community has taught me that it’s okay. It’s not the end of the world, my future won’t be some guy alone in a dark room wondering what happened to my love life, my sex life, my physical or mental health.

After 100 days my sex life seems to be back to normal. Regular, happy, full of enjoyment.

If I laps again, which may honestly happen, then I know where I will go. Back to the amazing Mojo app and great community to get back on track again.

So I’ll be leaving the community and deleting the app. Not because it didn’t work, but because it DID! :slight_smile:

Thanks again

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Congratulations my friend. I’m happy for you. That hard work and commitment has paid off! :muscle:

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I could have written the above post word for word.
There were many times I avoided going to bed the same time as my wife and avoided all types of physical contact be it a kiss,cuddle or hug throughout the day as it may give her false hope.
Once or twice I even considered telling her I would understand if she needed to fulfill her needs elsewhere as I was that paranoid and miserable and had zero hope of ever “fixing” my problem.

Currently on day 95 and our relationship stronger than ever with a healthy sex life.
Not something I would have imagined at all last year.

Tried Mojo thinking it would lead to nothing but through box breathing, meditation and the community showing me I’m far from alone, it’s given me a huge lift.

Spectatoring explanation was a huge insight for me and I now use in other parts of my life also

Best of luck :+1:

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Massive congrats on the win! We are considering doing podcasts (with therapists) with members to encourage everyone to stick through the ups and downs, please do let us know if you’d be interested!

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Congratulations. The perseverance has paid off. I’m on Day 23 of my journey and it’s beginning to click. The combination of the meditation, the breathing , the other activities and the community is making this a rewarding experience. I’m far from cured, but see improvements in the bedroom, and in the rest of my life. I’m calmer, more relaxed and living in the moment far more than before. Mojo is proving to be a holistic approach that is benefiting my whole life.

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Feel the exact same way now as you did. I want to be close and have great sex with my wife like we used to. I often think back to the person I was before all the performance anxiety crept in and stayed. I had it before from time to time but was always able to overcome it. But now I’m so afraid to initiate anymore for fear of failure. I get stuck spectatoring and just lose it. It’s really failing her, that I feel the worst about.

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This is exactly where I am too. Feels like utter crap. Good luck man. I’m hoping this app helps.