So yeah… yesterday I was having sex and when I put the condom on I lost my erection again. This was the first time in a while that I even tried to put one on since for the last couple of months I‘ve never really been hard enough.
But the problem now is that my brain still categorizes this as a failure even though the rest of the experience was pretty good.
Any motivating words from some of you guys to fight against my inner critic ?
I have real issues wearing condoms. I stead I went and got sti tests and make sure I pull out as a compromise to not having to wear them. Luckily, my new partner also dislikes them.
That has been my biggest life problem so far. I am average length but above average girth and normal condoms were really hard to put on and would make me lose my erection while trying. This has been 15 years ago but the mental damage has been done. Now whenever a girl asks if I have condoms while making out in bed I would immediately lose my erection. I could mitigate this partly with viagra and custom sized condoms but I still need to work on it.
Just remember, thus was a one of - past performance is not a tale of future attempts! Every time a brand new time! Keep at it mate