Now I feel depressed because I just don’t seem to see any positive signs after working at this for a couple of months. I’m even thinking about cheating on my wife to see if I can get it hard with someone else. I feel like a complete failure.
You are not alone, i have the same issue, im managing to do it with viagra and sometimes without but overall its hard to get relaxed. I think the only block we have is that we think that if our partners saw us soft so many times its not worth trying at all because we dont want to fail again. Im doing meditations atm and they are helping a bit, you can try them every day also. The other think that could work is to try foreplay only without sex. You can get viagra for your comfort just to see what happens, ofcourse if you get hard you can make sex but if not you can focus only on her. Most of the time that works for me. Hope that helps a bit. Just dont start with the intention to have sex, that will move your attention from her and youl think only about your penis.
Thanks for the tips and support man! Let’s keep up the work!
Thanks for the tips and support!!!