Pun intended lol. Was intimate with the girl Iām seeing last night. Starting with making out like normal. As we got steamy, I focused on pleasuring her for a good while. When we switched to her going down on me, I used the tools to stay present in the situation by focusing on my breathing, hearing whatever sounds were occurring, and staying aware of and physical sensations. It helped a lot to focus on how her body felt on top of mine instead of just focusing on how my penis felt in her mouth. Was able to stay hard with a good erection the whole time.
After that, we switched to missionary. Took a moment for me to get the angle right and get into the rhythm of it, but I stayed present and we were able to enjoy that for a good little while.
Lost the erection when we tried some other positions, but hey, Iāll take the victories I did get. Also could just be stamina. We were intimate, including the making out and oral, overall about 1.5-2 hours so my penis might have just gotten tired I suppose. Didnāt climax, but the time with her was wonderful regardless.
