So I got an ongoing issue here, happened in 3 last relationship (2 years+).
What happens is that the desire to have sex with my girlfriend vanish after about 4 to 6 months…. But I stay in couple; this time I had a baby with her, and it’s been 4 years we are together…. She is hurt by the fact that I am not looking for sex and I am not very interested having intercourse with her since a long while. It does happen, but not often enough for her (once per month, sometime less, sometime more….)
I got this app thinking I was the problem; watching porn since 20 years could have created some issues…
But well… I don’t know what to do, if I leave her,I feel like this situation is going to happen again and again…. Can’t live like that all my life!
Maybe im born to be single?
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It’s a very common issue I think. Yes I do think has a lot to do with our porn society.
I have similiar issue. I still have a desire for sex but with other women. I am married and have a baby too. Sometimes when I have sex with my wife I do fantasies her being a different woman.
It works for getting a hard erection and having sex, but of course sex much better when you’re really connected with the person you’re with. Mindfulness and getting away from porn is the way to go. It takes time and a lot of discipline you’re trying to break free from something that’s been engraved in your mind since you first started learning about sex.