Low libido anyone else?

Does anyone else have this?
Just no real desire to have sex? No horny-ness at all?
I can get hard whenever I wank…most times with a partner….but I never have that actual “urge”.
Remember being actually toey?
I feel this plays a huge role in sometimes not getting erect?

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I’m having that issue right now, I’ve been in a relationship since January

there was another threada bout this and it was pretty well discussed. I really dont know if there is a rhyme or reason. for me personally….lots of trauma the last few years….and well, I just dont go out looking for women to chat up. I went to a doc, thought it was physical, he said all in my mind; but also said, “do you drink a lot…I said weekend warrior…” He said, you cant operate the machinery drunk, so stop drinking. I am 48. I on a tear from 28-42. Multiple times of sex per week. Few years gf. Few years dated several girls. Never ever a problem. To the point of exhaustion some times. Sometimes I feel like I took it too far with drinking/partying and trying to have sex. Maybe wore my body out.